30y/o woman refuses to sleep with husband

A 30-year-old mother has revealed that she refuses to have sex with her husband until she learns how to enjoy physical intimacy for herself.

Britni de la Cretaz, a writer from Boston, said she used to participate in various sexual acts with partners and act like a porn star in the bedroom because she thought that was what men wanted.

‘Growing up in a world that tells women that we are sexual objects, that wants us to know that our worth lies in how attractive we are to men,’ she wrote in an essay for Cosmopolitan.com. ‘I internalized those messages. I learned to see my value being measured by how many men wanted to sleep with me.’

Although many men would be uncomfortable with their wives swearing off sex, Britni said her husband loves her and ‘supports her 100 per cent’

‘I’ve spent my entire life having sex for other people,’ she said.

Britni recalled feeling pressured to have taboo sexual acts for the first time and crying throughout the entire episode. Britni’s destructive behavior left her ‘incredibly traumatized’,.

‘So no, I won’t have sex once per week “for my husband,” because it’s “good for our relationship.” We’ll have sex when we both want to, and our relationship is actually stronger than it’s ever been,’ she wrote.